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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 03:10

How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Is deconstruct sunscreen good for a 16-year-old girl?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Procrastinates a lot.

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What I need from you?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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That's it for today.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

It’s been over a month since I stopped taking sertraline but why do I still feel side effects like brain zaps and anxiety mood changes? The root cause of anxiety it’s your thinking and I perfectly master that better than before so it’s hard lately.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why aren't F1 cars popular on the street?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.